With cotton gloves on to protect your hands, you climb the near vertical ascent, pulling on the chain links, following the hand carved stone steps someone made for you 800 years ago. |
Following is a story of holistic nursing in action with this in mind.
Nights are when the babies get weighed, washed and fed and I'm in the 'crying room', stripping and dipping these brand new infants. I am incredulous of all the screaming that goes on during this activity. I somehow think it should be a sensual, pleasurable activity for everyone, but for all the years I've done this or watched it being done by others, it's a perfunctory exercise, something to get through. I have a hypothesis I want to test: babies will cry less, be more at ease if you listen to their body language, and follow their qi (energy) while bathing them. So I try this. I undress them, weigh them, handle them as I drip water over them, wipe their bodies down. It's really interesting. When my attention is on myself and them, I surprisingly find them arching backwards, leading with the crown of their head or going in directions I usually (in my role as nurse) counter or "right." As I meet them where they want to be, I can feel in their little bodies the recognition of me listening to and following them. Besides occasional squawks, my kids are fairly quiet when I bathe them. This draws attention to me and them and the veteran baby nurses come over, watch and ask, "what are you doing there?... what's going on?"
It's not an easy job 'listening' to a wet baby's energy and following it. It requires all my attention and I find myself exhausted after doing this with three kids. But this incredible raw openness they have and the subsequent tensions and relaxations sensed in their bodies as one handles them with attention is quite remarkable. When I let them be what and who they are without trying to "right" or control them, their contentedness appears complete. Their perfect and still containment while feeding after this "Qi" bath is inspiring.
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